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Nikah
is a solemn and sacred social contract
between bride and groom. This contract
is a strong covenant as expressed
in Quran (4:21). The marriage contract
in Islam is not a sacrament. It is
revocable.
Both parties mutually
agree and enter into this contract.
Both bride and groom have the liberty
to define various terms and conditions
of their liking and make them a part
of this contract.
The first part of
the marriage ceremony, Muslim
Nikah, is the signing of
the marriage contract itself. This
contract requires the consent of both
parties if they are adults. In Islam,
marriage is a legal bond and social
contract between a man and a woman
as prompted by the Shari'a. A woman
may propose marriage to a man directly
or through an intermediary. Marriage
is a social obligation and is registered
by the qadhi / qazi
who performs the short ceremony.
Nikah
Sermon
The assembly of Nikah
is addressed with a Nikah
Sermon (khutba-tun-nikah)
by the Muslim officiating the marriage.
In marriage societies, customarily,
a state appointed Muslim judge (Qadhi,
qazi) officiates the nikah
ceremony and keeps the record of the
marriage contract. However any trust
worthy practicing Muslim can conduct
the nikah ceremony,
as Islam does not advocate priesthood.
The documents of marriage contract/certificate
are filed with the mosque (masjid) and
local government for record.
Prophet Muhammad (S)
made it his tradition (sunnah) to have
Nikah sermon delivered
in the assembly to solemnize the marriage.
The sermon invites the bride and the
groom, as well as the participating
guests in the assembly to a life of
piety, mutual love, kindness, and social
responsibility.
The Khutbah-tun-Nikah
begins with the praise of Allah. His
help and guidance is sought. The Muslim
confession of faith that 'There is none
worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammad
is His servant and messenger" is
declared. The three Quranic verses (Quran
4:1, 3:102, 33:70-71) and one Prophetic
saying (hadith) form the main text of
the marriage.
This hadith is: 'By
Allah! Among all of you I am the most
God-fearing, and among you all, I am
the super most to save myself from the
wrath of Allah, yet my state is that
I observe prayer and sleep too. I observe
fast and suspend observing them; I marry
woman also. And he who turns away from
my Sunnah has no relation with me".
(Bukhari).
Nikah (zawaj)
is considered as an act of worship (ibadah).
It is virtuous to conduct it in a Mosque
keeping the ceremony simple. The marriage
ceremony is a social as well as a religious
activity. Islam advocates simplicity
in ceremonies and celebrations.
Prophet Muhammad (S)
considered simple weddings the best
weddings, 'The best wedding is that
upon which the least trouble and expense
is bestowed". (Mishkat)
Primary
Requirements of Nikah
1) Mutual agreement
(Ijab-O-Qubul) by the bride and the
groom
2) Two adult and sane witnesses
3) Mahr (marriage-gift) to be paid by
the groom to the bride either immediately
(muajjal) or deferred (muakhkhar), or
a combination of both
Secondary
Requirements of Nikah
1) Legal guardian (wakeel)
representing the bride
2) Written marriage contract ("Aqd-Nikah)
signed by the bride and the groom and
witnesses by two adult and sane witnesses
3) Qadi (State appointed Muslim judge)
or Ma'zoon (a responsible person officiating
the marriage ceremony)
4) Khutba-tun-Nikah
to solemnize the marriage
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